January 2013
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Anonymous asked: Make a move! You won't know if it's what you want until you take a chance.
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Anonymous asked: How's your love life?
November 2012
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Anonymous asked: So my boyfriend and I were supposed to go out to eat somewhere nice and just te two of us. Then he tells me if it's okay he ask his dad if he wants to come. He doesn't live with his dad and they don't really talk. So i say okay. He then tells me that we're not going someplace nice anymore because he told his dad a certain time and we won't have time to eat. I of course get...
October 2012
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Anonymous asked: I love my best friend and he loves me. We decided not to get together due to the distance as we are both now at uni... but I visited him yesterday and he was saying all this stuff about how when we are 21 he is going to propose to me and wants to be with me... I am trying to live my life and get over him but we are just perfect for each other... What should I do? XOX
September 2012
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Should I Stay or Should I Go? →
hellyeahscarleteen:
A relationship doesn’t need to be perfect or blissful 24/7 to be healthy or happy, and won’t ever be, because people aren’t perfect or blissed out every waking minute, and relationships are made of people. Conflicts, disagreements and problems do and will happen. We also won’t always get everything we want or need all the time. People change over time, so something that...
August 2012
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Anonymous asked: My friends talk so much shit about my boyfriend and I don't know what to do. I feel like if I tell them to stop that they are going to be mad at me. I love my boyfriend but I also love my friends. I want to tell my boyfriend what they say but I just got him to start hanging out with my friends. I just have no idea what to do.
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Anonymous asked: I am completely in love with my best friend. everything about her is perfect. Her smile, her laugh, her odd insecurities, all of it. Shes amazing. I cant even look at other girls without comparing them to her, and no other girl is ever good enough. And she knows how I feel about her. But she has a boyfriend. She also says she has feelings for me too, she just wont tell me what those feelings are...
Anonymous asked: Well think about if you really want them in your life or not. Sometimes the advice giver needs some advice themselves.
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Anonymous asked: How is your love life right now?
July 2012
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Anonymous asked: Hey.. So one of my closest friends just got out of about a year long relationship with his girlfriend. This is the first time we've both been single since we've become friends. Everyone has always thought we should be together so we always joke about it but I can't tell if he's serious. But now we go to college in the fall. All I want is a summer fling I guess but I've...
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Anonymous asked: Thank you, I really appreciate your help -EB
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Anonymous asked: Yes, I want it all. A relationship. A kiss. His love. I kinda threw in my cards a couple months ago, about loving him. I can't put him in the position with his girlfriend, even though I want to. When we're together, we act like a silly couple, and we make each other happy, but... I can't risk losing him and I just don't know... - EB
Heading to bed now~
I will reply to all asks tomorrow morning. :)
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Anonymous asked: Making a pros and cons list does sound like a good idea. And you wanted to date him Sven though he got kind of annoying? Well I guess she kept the annoying part of him haha thanks for advice! I'll let you know how it worked out.
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Anonymous asked: So you still talk to your best friend? If you do, have you guys talked about getting together or is he still with his girlfriend? I'm kinda going through the same thing.
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Anonymous asked: Yes I feel guilty. But I almost can't be "just friends" with him. I just.. ugh. I'm feeling so many conflicting feelings that it just makes me want to throw up. -Complex Feelings
I’m responding on my phone so sorry if there are typos. Silly smart phone can’t even open the edit function on my posts :(
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Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm the one with the daughter. James doesn't expect anything of me or the situation. He's not putting any pressure on me; he wouldn't do that. It's my own feelings I'm having a hard time with. I don't know what to do. James left my life completely for 8 months, he thought that would help me. (He hates seeing me like this.) But it didn't help me at all....
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Anonymous asked: Hi again. I'm the situation with my best friend and me kissing him. No, it wasn't awkward. The whole night we were messing around with each other and then suddenly we were a breath apart, looked at each other, and it just happened.
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Anonymous asked: So, my boyfriend of 2 years and I have a 6 month old daughter together. I love him very much and we share a home together, bank accounts, etc. I am also in love with someone else (let's call him James). It was someone I met/fell in love with before I met my current boyfriend, but things never worked out. We stayed friends. When I got pregnant, James told me that he still loved me, and...
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Anonymous asked: How did you deal with being in love with your best friend? Did they have a significant other?
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Anonymous asked: I'm madly in love with my best friend, but he has a girlfriend. I respect that, and have never tried to do anything to break them up. Last night though I kissed him. I don't know what I was thinking and now I don't know what to do...
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Anonymous asked: So im going to hang out with some friends and there's a chance that the person that my boyfriend cheated on me with is going to be there. I have no idea what to do or think? Should I have my guard up that day..
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fierceferoz asked: how do i get this bitch off my mind? -___-
February 2012
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Anonymous asked: What's your new blog called?
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Anonymous asked: yes, i thought it was fitting however, since this blog is about love and relationships.
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Anonymous asked: i love u and thats the truth and id do anything to turn back time. anything.
January 2012
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Anonymous asked: Who can you say you were/are still in love with?
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Anonymous asked: Wow. I guess you have been through a lot. Thanks for answering my question too, I just realized that it was pretty personal. I apologize.
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Anonymous asked: I've seen your other blog and you mention a guy a lot. If you can give us relationship advice why are you not with that guy? Sorry if this is too personal but I have issues just trusting anybody with my relationship problems but I also don't want to share it with my friends because their opinions will be biased.
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Anonymous asked: What relationship problems have you had in order to help us/give advice with our relationship issues?
December 2011
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Anonymous asked: Up until recently I was the one paying for his gas and stuff. And I do his laundry and those sorta things. Thanks for the advice.
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Anonymous asked: Well breaking up with him isn't all that easy. I live with him. Things have gotten a little better though, Like a couple days ago he told me the girl tried talking to him and that he replied but told her they couldn't talk and I believed him because he would lose more than I would if he were lying.
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Anonymous asked: We've been together for 3 years now which is a pretty long time for our age. And yeah, I guess that him loving me shouldn't be a reason as to why I should trust him but when he cheated on me we were also going through some rough times and the girl had been wanting him a long time...I guess he just fell into temptation. Is it bad that I'm trying to justify his actions?
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Anonymous asked: No, he hadn't broken my trust before. I'm slowly trying to trust him but i just can't forget the messages I read between the two of them. I've told him how I felt and he says I should just trust him because he loves me.
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Anonymous asked: My boyfriend cheated on me with his "bestfriend". I forgave him and told him to stop talking to her and I would never bring it up again. Trusting him is so hard but I try. I also try to not talk to the girl and call her a ho. What should I do?
October 2011
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Anonymous asked: you're so lovely :3 :3:3:3 i'll keep you posted <3 - confused anon ;~; thanks for the help :3
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Anonymous asked: The flirting has only been going on for about a week or a week and a half two ish. not that much. he just seems LIKE THE KIND OF GUY THAT I'M into and i'm never into guys sigh. It also might just be that I want a cuddle buddy really badly :< - confused anon ;~;
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Anonymous asked: Yea, well that's the thing. She doesn't know him that well either. She met his good friend only a few months ago and didn't talk to the kid (let's just call him Sam) all that much. ahh it's just so silly but I think he's really cute but I don't want to make things up. He's always like "you should come visit meee" and we talked about the possibility...
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Anonymous asked: No, he didn't introduce himself like that but we've been talking for a few weeks and now he always says "hi" affectionately/flirty but I think it might be a joke cos we're joke husband/wife on fb cos my good friend is joke husband n' wife with his good friend. I KNOW IT SOUNDS STUPID and I usually don't take those sort of things seriously but he's...
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Anonymous asked: So, theres this guy. I don't know him well, he's a friend of a really good friend. He lives in NY. We're really similar (our humor is the same) which makes things difficult because I never really know if he's serious or not. I mean we've had serious coversations (and by serious I mean both of us ranting about how stressful college is and how we're randomly...
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“You don’t need strength to let go of something. What you really need is...”
– (via adriannewohlfeil)
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We Must Grow Stronger
Hi everyone!
My name is Natalie, and I just started this blog.
I’d like this blog to be a free space for people to come to me (as well as other followers once I get a few) with their relationship problem.
As for me, I guess I should tell you my qualifications.
I’ve been everywhere and back.
I’ve been the dumped.
I’ve been the dumper.
I’ve regretted.
I’ve...
