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Anonymous said: Hi, I'm the one with the daughter. James doesn't expect anything of me or the situation. He's not putting any pressure on me; he wouldn't do that. It's my own feelings I'm having a hard time with. I don't know what to do. James left my life completely for 8 months, he thought that would help me. (He hates seeing me like this.) But it didn't help me at all. My feelings are tearing me apart. -Complex Feelings

Well that’s nice of James to give you space and a chance to think. So do you feel guilty that you also love James? Do you feel as though you’ll loss james as a best friend if you reject him?